The best choice we can make is to keep our opinions to ourselves. We don’t know what we think we know. But, if we want to know more of the reality of truth, we can ask God, and wait and see just how much He wants to reveal to us as we listen up to Him first.
Are you tired of being prescripted by other people’s labels? Personal opinion thrust on you is prescriptivism of the most evil kind. People assuming, what they think they know about you is truth and accusing you with their prescriptive deny accuse evil inspired speculations. Done with that? Turn to God. Listen up to His Truth. Give no one else permission to speak into your life but God.
Don’t overthink it by yourself. Think It UP with God. Look Up. Listen Up. JOY!